Quote of the day

"Never let life's hardships disturb you; no one can avoid problems, not even saints or sages."
- Nichiren Daishonen

Exercise No.8

Affirmations are a great way of changing your thought patterns. Saying things like:

- I'm very relaxed when ever I ride my horse
- I am successful
- I always remember my dressage test
- I can jump a clear round

Saying affirmations in your mind will help you to change your thoughts and focus on what it is you want to achieve.
Write down your own affirmations and practise them daily.

Exercise No. 7

In order to change you have to do something different.
Einstein's definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome.
Most people find it difficult to change because they are so used to be doing things their way that it has become an automatic, unconscious response and lets face it; it's comfortable. And who wants to be uncomfortable?!
If you for example have a habit of hanging on to your horses mouth, in order to improve your riding you first have to do something different like changing the position of your hands by carrying them higher or lower. By changing your hand position you are already re-programing your mind, bringing a unconscious behaviour into the conscious and therefore being able to focus on it easier.
When we are doing something automatically, we don't think about it, which means we are unaware of what we do. By changing it becomes unfamiliar and we now have to focus on what we do because we are not used to doing it this way.
Tomorrow we talk more in detail how to change fear into confidence.

Exersice No.4

Did you find your lesson and could you see the learning?
Congratulations, that's a big step.
Now be grateful for the lesson.
Remember you always have a choice how you look at things and this will give you the opportunity to see things differently. Instead of focusing on the bad things, start to look for the good things.
By doing so consistently you train your mind to be positive.
Remember you feel what you think and you think how you feel.
Tomorrow we talk about how to re-program your mind.
Have fun.

Exersice No 3

So to recap on what we have done so far: You have written down what it is that you want to change about yourself and you have found the origin when that behaviour, fear or belief started. Now it's time to find the lesson and the learning in what happened.
If you have experienced something you don't like chances are you feel like a victim. A victim thinks things like:"why did this happen to me? What have I done to deserve this? Everyone is giving me a hard time. It's everyone else's fault."
If this is you, I'm afraid to tell you that you are stuck in a rut of negative thoughts, behaviours and ultimately negative outcomes. The only way to get out of this is to find your learning and that will change your thinking.
Now I know it's tricky to see something good when you don't feel good.
Let's start by accepting that there IS something good in your bad experience.
For example your learning could be that you can trust yourself more, that you have learned to sit up and listen to your instructor more or that you have to change the way you feed your horse.
Finding your learning gets you out of being a victim and empowers you to move forwards.
This is the most important step, so take your time and commit yourself to this.

Exercise No.1

Since most of the readers following this blog are horse riders lets stick to a horsey theme. If you are not horsey you can just adapt the exercises to any other area in your life.
The first step to change is you need to identify what it is you want to change. So in riding terms this could be letting go of fear when it comes to certain things like jumping, competition or trail riding. It could also be a choice to become more positive or more determined to follow your goals.
So the first step is to sit down and to take a long, hard look at yourself. What is it you want to change? Take a pen and paper and start to write it down.
This is your homework for day one, enjoy the self discovery and I'll see you back tomorrow.
Cheers Tanja

Quote of the day

I have been wondering, is anybody out there actually reading my blog?????????
If you are, please let me know. I invite you to ad some comments, ideas, suggestions and questions you might have. ANYTHING.
This blog allows me to write down my thoughts and I invite you to do the same.
Have a fantastic day
Cheers
Tanja

Quote of the day

"As long as a person doesn't admit he's defeated,he is not defeated-he's just a little behind, and isn't through fighting."
Darrell Royal, football coach

Quote of the day

"The key to successful time management is doing the most important task first, and giving it your full concentration to the exclusion of everything else."
- Alex MacKenzie

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"Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach. It's the end you're after."
- Anthony Robbins, Motivational speaker

Quote of the day

"Some man have thousands of reasons why they can not do what they want to, when all they need is one reason why they can."
-Willis R. Whitney

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"You get the best out of others when you get the best out of yourself."
- Harvey Firestone, tire executive

I think it's time to share some of my health philosophies with you.
I spent the last three days in Brisbane at a Chiropractic Seminar called DG (Dynamic Growth). It was all about Health, Love and Success.
I have learned about our body's amazing ability to self heal and self regulate. What does that mean?
Well it means that our body has the amazing ability to heal itself and maintain health throughout life. All we have to do is to make sure it can function the way it was designed, without interference. Dis-ease comes when we get out of wack, physically, emotionally and chemically.

Physically - that means get your nervous system checked regularly to make sure that the messages from your brain actually reaches the area of your body it was meant to. Keep it free from interference, also called subluxations. There is nobody more qualified to do this then a Chiropractor.(I'm happy to pass on some names of Chiropractors in your area)

Emotionally - that means to love yourself, using affirmations to keep you on track and searching for lessons and learning's throughout your lifetime. All this and other things we discuss here on the blog will help you to stay balanced and emotionally healthy.

Chemically - the food you eat and the household products you use on a regular basis including shampoo, soaps and insect repellent. Start by reading the labels and look at the ingredients, you might be surprised to find what's in some of the products you thought were safe. Look through the Internet and start to educate yourself and then take appropriate action.

I have realised that in order to stay true to myself I have to share more of MY philosophy with you, some of which you might agree and some of which you won't. Remember it's not about being right or wrong, it's about telling MY TRUTH so you can begin to find your own.
I'm grateful to all you readers for giving me your time and patients
lots of love
Tanja